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Why dating is so hard

I have been talking to a couple of interesting guys down south; maybe I'll be more simpatico with that crowd. How many times have I gone out with someone only to end up hearing about their ex-girlfirend or ex-wife and how they are "hosing" them for child support or alimony?

I'm not going to waste my time dating someone who doesn't float my boat. I hope David also realizes that men come with a lot of baggage after a certain age, too.

I suspect I'll be seeing/hearing about him causing trouble within these groups, which make it clear they don't like men pestering the female members for a date unless the feeling is mutual. I'm very old fashioned and love speaking on the phone and hearing someone's voice, so that resonated with me. I'm not going to pick an area of the country that doesn't fit me just to find a guy. Like Colleen, I was on Tinder for about 20 minutes when I realized it actually was. And, yeah, I can see why these dudes are online looking for hookups. Like Colleen, I know what I want, I'm not willing to settle, and I'm enjoying my will a bonus.

Yes, it should be easy, but men make it hard sometimes, too. I've read that men are far more likely to immediately jump into another relationship after being dumped than women, who tend to rehash the relationship over and over with friends.

I don't date anybody who isn't emotionally ready to be in another relationship.

It is nice to be able to learn about a person in a social setting before you ever consider dating them. Granted, a lot of the men on the sites are only looking for sex..any woman who online dates is hyper aware of it.

Too often my online experiences I have are just men shopping for a hook up so I don't think it is any better than the bar.

Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. I've managed to get my baggage down to a carry on..i am working hard to be open, honest and raw in my relationships.

I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Yes, it's hard to date when you have a lot baggage to deal with. I was having a long talk today with members of my team. She doesn’t think her life will be over if she doesn’t have children by next year. I know there was a discussion on here before about how important it is to get intimate at some point before marrying the person.) It annoyed me because the law of attraction talks a lot about letting go off "how" something will come about...there's tons of ways you can meet the ideal partner, not just's not a one-size-fits-all way to meet somebody. She’s not worrying about being married within a couple of years. She met her husband online (and claims she didn't have sex with him until their honeymoon night and was advocating it for other women... We usually have a support system of female friends to fall back on. Stop worrying about every move you make in a relationship. I suspect it's because men in general can't handle being single/alone as well as women can. What happens if you don't find anyone INTERESTING enough to date? One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place. Just trying to temper it with a little wisdom, that's all. And living a full, vibrant life is always the best way to go. Boy and girl notice they’re together 5 nights a week. I automatically deleted anyone from OKCupid who couldn't write beyond a short sentence. If you ladies want a laugh, check out this Instagram page that a former coworker told me about this morning..girl was/is using the dating app Tinder (well, it's really a hook up app for younger men looking for someone to shag) and she got her revenge on all of the losers who sent her disgusting texts.... I'm about as picky about where I'm willing to live as I am about choosing men, so I'll go for the place that will increase my overall QOL, and if a guy with whom I click comes along, that's just icing on the cake. If I'm still looking for work this summer, I'm going to make the most of the season the best I can! Once you stop "looking" for love, a lot of times it finds you. If you’re in your 20’s right now, I’m sending you a big hug and kiss, and telling you to try not to change your attitude to life and love. There are so many hoops to jump through, and walls to climb over. I feel like you’re judging and evaluating everything I say. You give a guy your phone number and suddenly all hell breaks loose. What happened to boy and girl falling in love without all the hassle? so I may do better in the Northeast myself, Colleen... The page said it would be shut down unless a new organizer took it over. I feel like you’re frisking me, and checking my suitcase for a weapon. But, then again, I'm a blue dot in a very red state... And the events he posted were to meet at a Williams Sonoma store, wear red, and ask "meetup? Anyways, I clicked on the group page to other day to see if it had attracted any other members..he has left his own group!

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