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Thoughts on interracial dating

Recently, I have even seen her described online as a bed wench and a mule. S, the Negro bed wench was a Black woman on a plantation whose primary function was to sleep with the white massa. And because of the favorability she received, this woman would generally feel superior to the other women on the plantation.

Often times, in exchange for her sexual acts, the massa would treat her more favorably than the other female slaves--exemption from working in the fields, for example. Today, the term is generally used to describe behaviors one would associate with that of a female “Uncle Tom.” And the "act" of being a Black woman in a relationship with a white man is seen as something someone complicit in the expansion of white supremacy would do.

So when a Black women ends up with a white man, we are often looked at as not being able to "handle" the Black man, who is himself looked at as the strongest of any group of people.

We also often see a similar reaction from Black men when they come across a Black woman in a relationship with a white man.

So, if it’s okay for other people to date outside of their race, why isn’t it okay for Black people?

Serena Williams was a recent subject of the term after announcing her engagement to white boyfriend and Reddit co-founder Alexis Ohanian. Something incredibly destructive that has deeply manifested itself within the Black community is self-hatred.

It is something that hard to talk about and gravely misunderstood.

What’s with the double standard and the disconnect?

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Actress and talk show host Tamera Mowry-Housley has openly spoken out about the criticism she faces as the wife of a white man.Side note: If you haven't had a chance to watch "Underground," with Jurnee Smollet-Bell, DO IT! Another reason we see such an adverse response to a relationship like this is because Black women who are not with a Black man are often looked as as weak.Now, if we are being completely honest here, white women are stereotyped as being the weakest of any group of people.And not just ugly, but uneducated, disgusting, and inferior.Tiya Miles, a writer for the Huff Post suggests that for many Black men, the white woman less of a partner and equal, but more of a big, shiny prize.I can tell you that in this case, the Black woman *humpf* can absolutely be translated to "I wonder how he feels about his own mother."Now, of course, none of this is to say that you can tell the intent of a relationship from the outside because you can't.And we all know what they say about those who make assumptions.I recently came across a Facebook post asking Black people what they thought of a cartoon image depicting a Black woman in a relationship with a white man. Even though I, personally, generally don't care about Black people dating outside of the race, I, as a Black women, ABSOLUTELY saw where many of those people were coming from.Initially, I thought it weird that someone would even ask a question like that, but after sifting through the comments, and I mean COMMENTS, it was clear that many people really did have thought-out and serious opinions about it. I imagine that if you were to ask a random Black person what they thought about interracial relationships in general, they’d say they were indifferent, but I think we’ve all noticed the *humpf* Black women often make when they come across a Black man in a relationship with a woman outside of his race.When asked if he liked actress Keke Palmer, the rapper responded, “Keke Palmer, she straight.I’d bag her, but I don’t really like black girls like that, sorta kinda.” After a firestorm of backlash, the rapper attempted to "clarify" his statement by saying, "it's just not my forte to deal with a "dark skin" woman I prefer them to have a lighter complexion than me #My Preference #Fuck You We also see a lot of famous Black men like actors Taye Diggs and Terrance Howard, and singer Tyrese Beckford routinely chooses not to date Black women and you can't help but wonder why.

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