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Kevin: I'm not one to complain about being short, because once you realize you can shop in the children's section and climb on top of things to get to out-of-reach objects, you're pretty much on a level playing field with the rest of the world. I think a lot of guys fetishize the height gap and say things like, "I'm so into you because you're so short," or "It's really hot knowing that I could lift you up in bed," etc.
Or guys can also be completely dismissive once they see me in person and say, "You seem much taller in your photos" or "I didn't realize how short you were until you got off that stool." I recently had one guy actually look over my head to see if the person he was meeting was someone else besides me. But of course in a completely contradictory way, I'm usually attracted to men who are much, much taller than I am.
I'd never dated a short guy, or at least one with such a pronounced height difference, and from what I learned later, he'd never even thought to approach or ask out a tall girl for fear of automatic rejection which he'd experienced a lot of in his younger days on account of his height.
I've since gone back to dating taller men and, Alton, shorter women.
We remain good friends, but we just couldn't make it work as a couple with our differences.
I think society is so much more accepting now of so many different types of matches, but the height thing still really bothers people and I guess the two of us were really no different.
I don't know if I'll ever date another guy that short again or if Alton would a tall girl.