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Or perhaps, he or she just has multiple personalities. You have to be comfortable with knowing that sometimes, you just won't get a direct answer or ever really know why things went wrong.

Don't waste your time ruminating over what you did wrong or what you can do to get a person to act as you want him or her to act. All you can control is the amount of bullsh*t you accept in your life and how you react to it.

If the two of you are truly enjoying each other's company in and outside of the bedroom, I hate to tell you, but you both have the case of the feels.

But, this doesn't mean you have to stop living your lives and enter a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship. Before you can figure out what you want, stop calling it what it isn't.

We are a generation that simply refuses to admit when we have feelings for someone.

We think it makes us weak or that feelings lead to a loss of our freedom or independence.

There was a time when I actually used to spend hours trying to figure out what a guy's flaky behaviors meant.

Why does he say he wants to hang out, but instead of making plans, just likes my Facebook statuses?

It's not a coincidence that the guys with whom I've had the best sex are the ones I also like as people. When casual sex starts to turn into "friends with benefits," or anything in that category, it's great for a short period of time, but it has an expiration date.

We get along, we make each other laugh, we are interested in each other's lives, we can go out for meals in public and have things to say and wait… And, at some point, it either needs to progress or stop.

When I go for guys who can't commit, they leave, therefore validating my misguided assumption that if I let someone in, I will inevitably get hurt.

This is called counter dependency, which I have written about before. If we go for people with whom we know it won't work out, it hurts less than putting ourselves out there with someone it actually might work out with.

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