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Dating your student

A Chinese girl in her mid-Twenties or older would also be looking, not merely for a boyfriend but also for a potential future husband.

Dating a colleague (either a fellow foreign teacher or a local Chinese one) is an option but when I tried to date my Chinese counterpart teacher a few years ago, I was turned down because she was looking for a local man and not a foreigner.

This is one problem that you will need to be aware of – some Chinese girls will be reluctant to get into a relationship with a foreigner because they know that at some point, you will leave the country and she will have to decide whether to follow you or to break up with you. There are a number of dating websites in China such as China Love Cupid.com, Asian Dating.com, and among others and it was on one of these websites that I met my ex-girlfriend.

It can be quite scary for a foreigner to be put under this kind of pressure at an early stage in a relationship so be warned that this is something that you may need to deal with.

So, you tick all her boxes and you both embark on a relationship.

I personally know of some foreign teachers who have tried to date their students but although this is sorely tempting, DO NOT under any circumstances date a student. In the UK, romantic relationships between a teacher and a student are illegal and several teachers have been jailed for getting into a sexual relationship with their students. Your students and colleagues will gossip about you.

Teachers in China are normally highly respected by students but there is no better way to destroy this respect than to try to seduce a student.

It is also well-known that many girls in China want to marry a British or American man simply to get a visa so before you get too deeply involved with a girl from China, make sure that she loves you for yourself and not for your money or your ability to get her a visa. Unlike the situation in the West where falling in love is the result of an emotional connection which happens naturally between two people, in China, the women tend to take a much more analytical approach to finding a partner.

Your occupation, status and wealth as well as parental approval are all factors which a Chinese girl will consider before deciding whether or not to embark on a relationship with you.

A Chinese woman expects a life of luxury from her husband and also may not be willing to marry for better or worse.

I was quite shocked at how ruthless my ex-girlfriend was in this regard.

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