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Dating a young widower advice

But when you’re feeling super vulnerable, being rejected is devastating.

If your sense of self is still forming, it’s not time to date.

I sleepwalked through much of it, too tired to enjoy the fast-paced sightseeing and being out of my comfort zone.

I needed to spend what energies I did have taking care of myself.

Having only the best intentions, George’s parents took me on a three week cruise of the Baltics four months after he died.

If you’re in early dating, don’t hesitate to have a grownup, direct conversation about his readiness to feel deep connection with another woman. And I want to thank and honor you all for sharing so thoughtfully and honestly.

But I would like to dig just a little deeper than I did with my initial writing.

This is a hard one because you might not know until you try.

I tried dating a nice Jewish yogi lawyer (just like me) four months after losing George. Everything we did reminded me of something George and I had done or eaten or seen or hadn’t had the chance to do because his life had been cut short. I also had a lot of guilt over having been George’s caregiver. ” Haven’t we all heard this from well-intentioned people who are uncomfortable because we’re alone.

I didn’t know what I wanted when I started online dating.

Being a nice girl, I sought a stable guy to settle down with.

I lacked the energy to enjoy trying new experiences.

Try some long days out with friends before attempting any lengthy or faraway dates.

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