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Many in a courtship relationship will not spend any time together unless family members, preferably parents, are present at all times.In addition, courting couples state up front that their intentions are to see if the other person is a suitable potential marriage partner.In addition, it can be hard to find the “real” person behind the public face presented in front of the entire family.

Are we supposed to be actively looking for a spouse?

Hi, I guess as a Chrisitan on a Christian dating site, I struggle with the fact that even Chrisitan guys require "model" looks before they talk to a female.

Scripturally speaking, the result of the process—godly Christian men and women marrying and raising families to the glory of God—is far more important than the method they use to achieve that result.

"Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God" (1 Corinthians , NKJV).

If they find this hard to do, they must take steps to ensure that Christ will always be honored during their time together and that sin is never given a chance to take hold of their relationship.

Just as with the courting couple, the parents of the dating couple should be involved in the relationship, getting to know their child’s companion and being a source of wise and discerning advice and guidance for both of them.As far as sex, it amazes me how many Christian guys (and maybe girls) think that this is OK before marriage. I know you have to be somewhat attractive to a person, but I feel most guys want a size 6 or below or what nothing to do with you.I guess my main question is what are you going to do if you marry for looks only and then something happens to your girls looks? I have heard terrible things like if my wife ever gets fat I am leaving her, etc.While there are non-Christians who date with the intention of having a series of intimate physical relationships, for the Christian this is not acceptable and should never be the reason for dating.Many Christians see dating as little more than friendship and maintain the friendship aspect of their dating until both people are ready to commit to each other as potential marriage partners.It is important to remember that neither dating nor courtship is mandated in Scripture.In the end, the Christian character and spiritual maturity of the couple is far more important than the exact nature of how and when they spend time together.Post Reply It's interesting, I read this complaint a lot on Christian sites, but my experience with real world relationships is rather different.None of the men I've gotten to know/dated ever expressed an acceptance of extra-marital sex.Last time I checked, integrity, character and a heart to serve a spouse was far more important.Looks fade, people get fat, people have terrible accidents that can mangle faces and put you in a wheelchair, so if looks is all guys go for, maybe that is why there is SO many single guys still out there that are older.

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