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Is this not a case of cultural conditioning to say one is acceptable and the other is not? In any marriage with Christ as the central foundation this is a key factor that can often make the difference between a successful marriage and a failed marriage. The original article quoted has good advice that needs to be considered in a marriage where there is an age gap ,but no marriage no matter what the differences should be entered into without serious reflection.

The age difference doesn’t bother me, but is it a problem in the long run?

Answer: Any time there is a significant age difference, you should examine yourself and the relationship.

Pastor Terry Of course every point that you have made is completly valid and especially as you say taking it in the Light of Gods Word, and with Christ in the midst.

In fact it is only by the grace of God that most marriages do survive.

You cannot relate to each other and the differences are too great. You cannot relate to each other and the differences are too great. In relation to the previous comments both myself and friends of mine are not only happily married to younger--more than a few years-- women, but women who are from a different culture--Filipino.

All of us also have young children and the maturity of age makes up for the limitations in physical energy.The best way to know if they are issues you can deal with is to date this person over a long period of time.And in all relationships we must look at the motivations of our attraction.It just seems wrong to me when a much older woman goes with a young guy...more of a lustful thing.My advice for what its worth is that I can tell you from experience, that I really think dating someone who is much older (or younger) than you is not a good idea. God bless, -SBMy advice for what its worth is that I can tell you from experience, that I really think dating someone who is much older (or younger) than you is not a good idea. God bless, -SB Time for me to jump into the discussion.As a Christian and a pastor I would like to make several points on this subject. There is nothing in the Bible that in any way implies that age,race,education,or disability are factors preventing marriage between those who can make an informed decision --Joseph and Mary were teens--an exception of course is the forced marriage of young girls--child brides-- to older men often for financial reasons in male-dominated cultures where this has been accepted tradition or certain religious traditions with a strong emphasis on polygamy as an accepted practice especially in North America. Each situation is unique and we need to avoid generalizations--how many marriages fail between 2 people of the same age, because one of the 2 is more emotionally immature than the other. --that still is assuming physical age must be very close between the 2 people involved.Also over time even people of the same age can develop vastly different likes and preferences that cause them to grow apart--the irreconcilable differences reason so often cited for marriage break-down. The gap in some cultures age wise related to differences in perspectives/interests is much more of a factor than in others.That doesn’t mean that two people with an age gap can’t have a healthy relationship or a good marriage.But you need to explore this attraction closely and not jump into anything too quickly.There was also an artical in a magazine about this in relation to the program, mature ladies going for younger men , just wanting to have a good time/or may be being in control as an older woman...once the 'fun' runs out, we must examine the reality.And the hurts and emotional pain this kind of thing must lead to.

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